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Threak-X;522322 said:One person cannot meet 100% of another person's emotional and sensual needs, if so, a child would never leave the Mother. Then what is the basis for the premature decision of commitment; the inability to make an informative decision because of the cloud of infatuation and lust?
No. Because people want to always feel like they do when they are falling in love. Rather than taking time to find themselves, they would rather be with someone else. Even if it's not the right person. it's the right-now person. Many people are afraid to be alone. Many people settle. Many people believe they need to be in a relationship for many reasons, so they jump into one. Like rather than be selective, wait for the right person and be alone many a night, they would prefer to jump into a relationship until it sours, then restart the cycle. It's easier than trying to be self reliant and looking inward for meaning and entertainment instead of outward.
I completely agree with what he said. I just don't like the word "need".