Millionman, that's great news about your night of passion or whatever you want to call it. It's great to hear someone that is so down to earth as you seem to be having a good relationship.
From your description I know of two wuss bag's out of my social group. They really fit the profile.
iwant8inches I've been thouroughly enjoying your posts and yes, I have been reading the entirety of each of them.
I just noticed that nearly all of us in this conversation are the same age. 9C9, MillionMan, iwant8inches, VK and me.
Carrying on from what you said iwant8inches, I think that we have to be careful not to simply pass off some of our natural urges as simply our 'reptilian brain' at work. In fact what is so wrong with accepting the fact that it is a part of our psyche and acting in accordance. I don't mean just thinking 'Ug, me want kill.' or something of the sort and following through on those instincts but more just acknowledging some of our more primal sexual desires.
Also, I very rarely want to fight or kill anyone. Actually I can't remember a time when I was sober and had those feelings. I get angry but control myself so I suppose what you are saying is that following our reptilian brain would be, as soon as you get pissed off, stay pissed off and act aggressively. There are some in my social group that fit that profile too.
I just realised that it might seem as if I don't mind being unfaithful but actually I'm very strongly against it. I'm really saying that maybe we shouldn't be monogomous but that we should be honest about that from the start with whichever partner we are with. Sort of like an open relationship.
I don't want to get too airy fairy now but iwant8inches you made the point that family is a very important part of society. I agree but wouldn't it be better if the whole human race was one big family that protected each other and loved one another as well as having open relationships with more than one partner (discounting relatives of course).:blush:
Right I am in danger of becoming a hippy. I must stop this at once.
OK back down to earth now. PHEW.