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Kal-el said:And more if a women "sleeps around", she is labeled things like "slut", "whore", and so forth. How can a person who meets another among the billions populating the planet suddenly say to himself, "Here is the only individual with whom I shall have intimate relations, and even if I meet others who appear to correspond to my tastes, I shall stay faithful to the first girl, for the one and only reason that luck had it that they were the first." That in a nutshell is "fidelity".
A woman is a slut if she sleeps around, becasue she holds the power of sex. She is the one that determines of the sex happens or not. Take a girl and have her try adn pick up 10 guys in a row to have sex with. Likely she'll get 10/10. Have a guy try and pick up 10 girls in a row, hes more likely to get 5/10 at the MOST. Thats why girls who sleep around are considered sluts, becuase it takes no effort for a girl to get sex, while a guy who sleeps around is considered a "pimp/player/stud", becuase a considerable more ammount of work is needed to get a woman to sleep with you. As far as the fidelity thing. Yes it is natural to sleep around. That's what people are hardwired for, but if you want to use that case then we all might as well be doing whatever our urges desire. Becoming animals if you will. Monogamy I think is a rational agreement between two people. Going around sleeping with other people just completly complicates things. Emotions are generally involved and as logical as someone may try and reason it. No one wants to see their mate go and sleep with someone else.