I don't think it ever started. I don't understand why, either, because my dad was packing a big thick one and I have a damn Cheeto in my pants. At no point do I ever remember an increase in flaccid size. I knew something was wrong at a very young age - I'm talking 7 or 8. By the age of 12, I had psychological problems about it. Around 15-16 I was very aware that my erection size was greater, but flaccid? Nada. I'm very worried for my own son. I pray to God that he gets luckier than I did, but I don't like the odds.