What is the perfect size for women?

ChilDsh;654693 said:

True , if you really love your partener penis size shouldn't be important...there are other ways to pleasure your girl besides penetration...

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That is the case.

It is ALSO the case that unlike boob size the size of your dick can lead to less sensation for a woman. If she's been filled more in the past, and you don't AND don't satisfy her like other penises have then she'll be the kind of woman that looks out for more well hung dudes...

So penis size DOES matter, or at least it CAN matter. Don't believe when anyone says it doesn't.

on the other hand there is a limit to this:

doublelongdaddy;654517 said:

8 x 6 is the holy grail for most men while 7 x 5 is what most woman think is huge....go figure.

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I would say that most women would *feel* more from 6" girth than 5" girth, I know this, as I've had both. I would say 6.5 is closer to the comfortable BUT nudging towards exciting.
Ideally your girth would taper from 6 at the head to 7 at your base, then you could give different girth sensations along your length, but then it would be pointless for your dick to be 9"+ as most would never feel that thick base inside of them.

Anyway what's being forgotten here is that while a woman will look for a better looking, better hung man, she will be compelled to do everything for the one that possess her with unapologetic male dominance. You need BALLS and a cock. A cock won't do it all for you. You'll get pussy but you won't get desired.

I realise this was all about cock dimensions but for those that think that an oversized cock is going to be your universal pass to the land of endless beautiful pussy: a reality check.

Jeremiah 17:5
This is what the LORD says: "Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who draws strength from mere flesh and whose heart turns away from the LORD.

Sorry but my god says not to trust what you just said

templnite;654908 said:

Jeremiah 17:5
This is what the LORD says: "Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who draws strength from mere flesh and whose heart turns away from the LORD.

Sorry but my god says not to trust what you just said

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Well that is a great quote & wisely interpreted holds much to bear in mind.

What I was aiming to do was prevent guys sleep-walking into being cheated on. While you could see that as dealing in 'mere flesh', it can hurt down to the soul. Especially when you genuinely loved the person.

templnite;654908 said:

Jeremiah 17:5
This is what the LORD says: "Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who draws strength from mere flesh and whose heart turns away from the LORD.

Sorry but my god says not to trust what you just said

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I don't want to bring religion in this , but doesn't the bible say it's a sin if you act sexual,have sexual thoughts and things like that?You're only supposed to have sex with your wife..so i know you and dld are relgious people...wouldn't PE in general be a sin?? ? ?

owmaballs;654912 said:

Well that is a great quote & wisely interpreted holds much to bear in mind.

What I was aiming to do was prevent guys sleep-walking into been cheated on. While that may ultimately be about mere flesh, it can hurt down to the soul. Especially when you genuinely loved the person.

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Oh come one man were matters of size fuck the world. Plus if you get cheated on its you're fault either for not taking care of the girl or simply choosing the wrong one. Also if you're going to talk about love we need to start by loving ourselves first which in my case involves having a 7/7 incher lol.

I don't like to throw the word love around because its something im not well acquainted with though. The only love I've ever seen is the love of god for his children.

@childish this thread will give you a better idea http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/deep-thoughts/3844-christianity-vs-pe-can-they-co-exist.html

templnite;654914 said:

Oh come one man were matters of size fuck the world. Plus if you get cheated on its you're fault either for not taking care of the girl or simply choosing the wrong one. Also if you're going to talk about love we need to start by loving ourselves first...

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I agree. I agree too with taking responsibility for what happens to you. But if that were all it was then it would be more predictable. The thing is, on Earth every person that you can have a relationship with, is flawed.

ChilDsh I don't see how doing PE can be a sin... I don't see that the Creator was against sex. Else there wouldn't be any sexuality... or sex!
I think it is about being from a place of love. Fucking without respect or precisely to disrespect someone... any unloving behaviour: is out.

I see that improving yourself, having the courage to do so and to find the people you want to be around and being the most loving person you can be, which can include wanting to take care of your partner's needs in the best way you can - don't see any sin in that.

You are meant to be with people that mean something to you; not just cum inside any person (or other living being) that you could get your penis inside of... you are disrespecting your time, your life and the opportunity given to you when you do so.
That's why masturbation INSTEAD of living your life is a disrespect too. It isn't that needing to masturbate is bad, but if you are doing it instead of living your life fully then you are committing the same kind of disrespect.
I see that God is the source of all love. And it is part of the opportunity that those of us who seek, can develop the size of penis we want.

It starts with courage and humility.

templnite;654914 said:

...if you're going to talk about love we need to start by loving ourselves first which in my case involves having a 7/7 incher lol.

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7/7 incher. Did you mean 7.7 in length?
Or 7x7 ? 7x7 is going to look stubby. That's the thing with all the ones that are n x n: i.e. 6 x 6, even 8 x 8! They are in the same ratio and look short.
I aim for a ratio closer to 8 x 6.5

Excellent post:blush: *likes*

Although with psychology you can predict how a person will act out, not to mention you have instincts.
And yea 7x7 ftw.

7x7 would look ugly.i think you need at least 8 inch in length for 7 in girth :D

ChilDsh;654935 said:

7x7 would look ugly.i think you need at least 8 inch in length for 7 in girth :D

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See its not that I don't care about what you think its that you're a child, and what you think doesn't matter. No just kidding I only don't want to fall in love with a honey that has a shallow poosey and that extra inch is left out in the cold.

i posted somewhere else wonder what my comment is doing here LOL i think jacking off is a great thing but as you have stated is not a good thing .....but i do it because allows me to stretch in an easy way...

templnite;654934 said:

Although with psychology you can predict how a person will act out, not to mention you have instincts.

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I've learnt and apply one of the best psychological models in terms of predicting people's behaviour or at least what they won't do; and my instincts were saying it wasn't going to end well. The thing is those don't allow you to choose who you feel love for templnite. A very different world if it were that simple.

You love who you love.
I'm sure you're aware of the saying that love is blind... to other factors.
As you put in your own words above, you can only be responsible for yourself. In a partnership, any kind of intimate one you are always vulnerable to the actions of the other person.
That's how it is, has been and always will be.

shortdick;654938 said:

i think jacking off is a great thing but as you have stated is not a good thing .....but i do it because allows me to stretch in an easy way...

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As you posted here short, let me reply.
I had my reasons and hey, we don't need many good reasons to masturbate, it simply is part of our hormonal well-being as living sexual creatures. But if you are jacking off, for whatever reason and you are relying on that to avoid getting your shit together and being a man to the woman that at present doesn't have you in her life...
...that ain't good for anyone, including yourself.

I was bullshitting myself in precisely that way for years. Though partly I had resigned myself to the doom of, 'being born with a small penis'. Ironically it was falling in love that brought me to the courage to deal with my situation.

I am always vulnerable? You don't know who you're talking to playboi, I'm in matters of size if I ever feel vulnerable I do something about it. We don't tolerate mediocrity in this site. We don't fall prey to emotional dependence. We are to make everybody else disappear, and fade away.

When they "love" you, 4" is plenty.

Oh my God I have modified my length goal. I don't want 9inches anymore. I'm going for 8.5inches. I'm currently 8inches. No extra penis should be left outside the pussy.

huge-girth;654979 said:

Oh my God I have modified my length goal. I don't want 9inches anymore. I'm going for 8.5inches. I'm currently 8inches. No extra penis should be left outside the pussy.

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You will reach your goal soon you are very consistent

All women are different Some can't handle a cock that's barely over average others want a baseball bat to stretch them out. I would think as long as you're between average and huge in length and girth you're good. Too much and it hurts too little and meh.
My guess? 7 x 5.5 pretty sure that was a concenus in a study of strippers ideal penis size (nope I'm not making this up lol)

ChilDsh;654935 said:

7x7 would look ugly.i think you need at least 8 inch in length for 7 in girth :D

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oversized code like shorty mac. I think length always need to pass girth by about an inch for a perfectly shaped penis IMO.

huge-girth;654979 said:

Oh my God I have modified my length goal. I don't want 9inches anymore. I'm going for 8.5inches. I'm currently 8inches. No extra penis should be left outside the pussy.

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Right? Just the adequate amount so you can ball tap away.

huge-girth;654979 said:

Oh my God I have modified my length goal. I don't want 9inches anymore. I'm going for 8.5inches. I'm currently 8inches. No extra penis should be left outside the pussy.

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You're really close to that... + if you have a low % body fat and no fat pad a 8,5 would look like 12 inch for girls )))))