Big, I've got something that will help you. I was 220 not too long ago, size 40 waist. I'm 170 now and size 32 and I don't diet. I do about 30 minutes of exercize about 3-4 times a week. My approach is a bit unconventional and most think it's bullshit. But it has worked for me and a few friends of mine. Where most people miss the boat, is the fact that there is no such thing as a diet really, it's a life, not a diet.
Now, when anyone has exhausted all the ideas in their current box of convention, it's time to step outside that box into the zone of unfamiliarity. Whenever there is discomfort involved (dieting) the subconscious tries to predict an outcome so it can keep you safe. It keeps you safe by tricking you into eating so it can predict the outcome, which is the chemicals released from the brain that bind to the recptor sites on the cells that produce the emotion of comfort from eating the garbage we eat. So everybody wins, except you. Since the sc is married to your body and the cells, you've already got a couple strikes against you. What I do is override the sc and implant a new idea in it, which is a monumental task. If anybody wants to hear more about this, PM me. I don't want to go into too much detail about it as most people are ready to accept this information. However in the very near future this science is going to revolutionize the way people handle all types of addictions and change. This is not core belief engineering or cognitive behavior therapy. It's easier than any of those things and it's free.
However, it takes work. Not hours, but at least a 1/2 hour a day. Mostly when you lie in bed and when you wake, in bed. Have you ever wondered, what if? What if I was how I wanted to be? Have you ever felt and imagined what it could be like? It can.
Kevin