case study extremely big problem. HELP SOMEBODY PLEASE....

im trying. this is so complicated to even try to understand to fix . it works. yet is completely crap. woke up last night feeling my erection. i flexed it against the covers. never really felt it until i actually touched it . then noticed my glans did not respond to kegels at all again. full erection otherwise. glans wasnt empty or anything. just didnt move whatsoever. next time i woke, i had another one. this time it swelled up like it should when flexed. i dont know. this keeps happening ever so often

Your body is a blessed and complex organic machinery. If we can understand it all, we wouldn't be asking professionals to perform expensive search and repair processes. We can just jump into a healing capsule and voi la, total healing. But we are not there yet.

notmeanymore said:

woke up last night feeling my erection. i flexed it against the covers. never really felt it until i actually touched it . then noticed my glans did not respond to kegels at all again. full erection otherwise. glans wasnt empty or anything.

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This is an indicator there's something or somekind of blockage. When your body is naturally laying flat, blood pressure normalizes across the body. Same with testosterone loading. It elevates and maximizes to the point where your body optimizes for a good erection. During the day, your blood pressures are all over the place. Whatever is near the pelvic region causing the symptoms, it's there, hiding. This is what you're feeling.

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just didnt move whatsoever. next time i woke, i had another one. this time it swelled up like it should when flexed. i dont know. this keeps happening ever so often

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Exactly just that. The symptoms are manifesting, but the source of the issues is hidden far deep inside. You can feel it at the pelvic floor. You can sense it's there. You can't get to it just yet. Now, we have to rule out one thing at a time. Be diligent and perform the various approaches we discussed previously.

i have no clue what to approach. it feels so wrong all day long. im afraid its just how it is even though i cant give up. i hate to say it, but the weird blocked feeling i get when i kegel sitting down feels good to me now cause its been this way so long. and it feels better than any other time, since its at least a feeling. sigh

This is where the mixed signal tends to be. For example, earlier in the week, or rather, two weeks ago, there's a feeling of pain sitting down. In the recent days, you indicated there's a "feels good" sensation while doing light kegel sitting down. This is where the true investigation approaches come into play. Doctors cannot help you on this as it's your own body that you have to make observation notes on:

• Kegel: When you perform kegels, what kind of kegels? Active kegels by tightening up the pelvic floor, reverse kegels where you push against the pelvic floor as if you're taking a dump, or a combo of both active and reverse kegels? Frequency of the kegels, such as how fast you change from one to the other, or kegel sets in between a certain amount of rest?
• Rest phases comparing to lack of rest phases: this has been discussed about in may posts, but rest is critical. It's essential. How much rest do you have? When did you notice the erection vs non-erectile period after a certain amount of rest? What's the quality of the rest? Detail logs like brother Haursen create a trend analytic you can get your teeth behind to mull over the info.
• Emotion and psychological trend: as DLD and other brothers indicated, metal stability is the vast majority of PE, or rather a major role in your life in various areas. What was the influence of emotional and psychological issues in the prior day(s) that cause your erection quality to drop or rise during the night/early morning hours?
• Blockage: you keep using the word and we echo it back to you. But, where is the feeling of the blockage. Don't guess. Trace it, or them, to the closest area of blockage(s). Without knowing where the blockage occur, it's like tossing a rock into a large lake it pray that it hits a fish on the way to the bottom. Don't play guess work, focus on tracing it/them. If the medical professionals know where to investigate, you are one step closer to finding the source(s) to deal with them directly and get rid of the symptoms.
• Routines: you indicated you do kegel. But what about other routines? Example is prostate massage. Yes, straight guys don't do this, but do you know that we suffer a hidden ailment that could have been prevented? Do I do them? You bet. I started when I was in my mid 30s. How often? Every other day. Using what? Battery operated tools, manual tool, and even bare hands. It doesn't take long. If you can masterbate in a 5 to 15 minutes session, you can perform prostate massage within that time to achieve the same masturbation result, and at times, much more intense outcome. But what other routines are you doing or are you just sitting around and complain to increase your woes?
• Medication? Supplements? Lifestyle changes? If you just hope and hope and hope and pray, you're not doing your part to heal. Prayers and hopefulness provide one level of healing. It requires you to be proactive in both pursuing the healing and discovering the sources of the problem.

no, no. lol. its a light pain. i just mean im getting so used to it . it doesnt feel good. its just that its an actual feeling response to a kegel. its the only time i can feel an actual feeling.
i dont do kegels per se. i just do them all throughout the day peridoically just cause i cant help it cause something is wrong. lol

i get plenty of rest. its my new passtime. 8-10hrs a day

emotional hasnt seemed to effect night erections. even my worst emotional days made good nights somehow

Blockage feels like its in my Butthole and up to my penis . or tightness rather

i have done a few prostate massages with therawand with no differences. massaged everything in there actually
ive tried various vitamins, supplements, etc. all seems like snake oil. lifestyle is as clean as i can get. gluten free, water,juice only. zero caffeine. low sugar, zero alcohol,or smoking, drugs, etc ,etc

and ive most likely discussed this previously. if i indeed messed nerves up like i feel like i did, could i have went 6 weeks or more without having any numness or loss of feeling? cause that is how it went. i just noticed i was smaller initially, and didnt have any arousal. nor could i kegel and get a mental erection. id still get hard with foreplay, and manually. and super hard at night. it was after that, i started getting sensitive, etc.which pregressively went to numbness, etc

this week has been weird and some days i wish it would just kill me already. ive layed back and relaxed a lot. i got a little different feeling from it after getting up and walking. i really feel almost nothing. it feels like my dick is wet with a fan on it almost. yet not sensitive or burning. its not a great feeling , i dont have much of those any more. but its not burning ...yet when its like this, the glans tends to want to stick to my leg . yesterday was pure hell with shrinkage and numbness. I got off this morning cause i was so stressed, and nothing feels like it matters . it felt so good, yet im feeling so rough from it now. my package felt decent for all of 30 min afterwards. then it all shrinks up to this new size i seem to have forever. my glans doesnt feel that bad if i touch it through clothes,. yet it feels nonexistant yet really tender and burny in clothes sitting still or walking. i used to hang aroused and fat several months ago off and on. around 5.5 and it felt great. im lucky to have 3.5-4 now, and super thin. even hourglassed at times. and glans feels dead to go with it.


im so angry i followed a tutorial on how to kill my self in 3 minutes or less. i dont think this can ever go away. i probably sound like a broken record, but this has destroyed my brain on how to even think anything through anymore. it really seems like my glans has gotten a more dead rubbery feel to it the last month or so. which cant be good. for a long time ,its lacked light feeling, and a showerhead doesnt feel totally right on it.
the thing is though.

id be ok with those feelings if i had a drive,size or Any kegel response other than when im half asleep. half the night last night i had a good chub, and it really felt relatively decent all around. i guess whatever feeling that got killed has destroyed my physical sex drive parts. the size ive lost most of the day is unreal. and there are zero moments i get any size increase unless i try to make it happen

notmeanymore said:

this week has been weird and some days i wish it would just kill me already. ive layed back and relaxed a lot. i got a little different feeling from it after getting up and walking. i really feel almost nothing. it feels like my dick is wet with a fan on it almost.

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This is something new. Okay, got to gain some clarification. When you feel the "dick is wet with a fan on it", does it means feeling clammy and cool like you sweat a lot and have an evaporative cooling effect? Or it's dry but having that cool feeling like a wet penis being blown by wind?

This is a lack of blood flow, regardless of how you put it. But the clamminess/wetness will be something to evaluate. If it's dry, then it's nothing out of the ordinary comparing to the lack of blood flow.

notmeanymore said:

yet not sensitive or burning. its not a great feeling , i dont have much of those any more. but its not burning ...yet when its like this, the glans tends to want to stick to my leg .

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Sticking to your legs is another flag. Does the penis feel sticky and wet, or does your crotch feels sticky and wet? This is something you want to define properly. Why? Two different symptoms aside from penile issues are manifesting.

notmeanymore said:

yesterday was pure hell with shrinkage and numbness.

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Shrinkage and numbess are symptoms not born out of nerves, but it's actually caused by frictious pain. Your nerve is not the culprit causing the shrinkage, but we finally figured out something else at 90%. Our brother @TCDreamer brought up in the recent days. Hard Flaccid Syndrome (HFS) covered the exact same manifestation we're reading from your reports. We're all pounding our heads, and check the boxes and scribbling our interactive doodle pads to see where you're leading us. Those doodle pads look like bad plates of sphagetti.

HFS can come out of the blue. It's not due to PE. It's a manifestation that we have yet to trace and track down on. It can be as simple as odd interactive diet, aging, bad physiological conditions, or exposed to a cocktail of manmade chemicals. More and more males and females are coming forward with the same HFS issues. It's no longer rare. It's alarming.

notmeanymore said:

I got off this morning cause i was so stressed, and nothing feels like it matters . it felt so good, yet im feeling so rough from it now. my package felt decent for all of 30 min afterwards. then it all shrinks up to this new size i seem to have forever. my glans doesnt feel that bad if i touch it through clothes,. yet it feels nonexistant yet really tender and burny in clothes sitting still or walking. i used to hang aroused and fat several months ago off and on. around 5.5 and it felt great. im lucky to have 3.5-4 now, and super thin. even hourglassed at times. and glans feels dead to go with it.


im so angry i followed a tutorial on how to kill my self in 3 minutes or less. i dont think this can ever go away. i probably sound like a broken record, but this has destroyed my brain on how to even think anything through anymore. it really seems like my glans has gotten a more dead rubbery feel to it the last month or so. which cant be good. for a long time ,its lacked light feeling, and a showerhead doesnt feel totally right on it.
the thing is though.

id be ok with those feelings if i had a drive,size or Any kegel response other than when im half asleep. half the night last night i had a good chub, and it really felt relatively decent all around. i guess whatever feeling that got killed has destroyed my physical sex drive parts. the size ive lost most of the day is unreal. and there are zero moments i get any size increase unless i try to make it happen

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Once again, it's not PE. If you believe PE is the cause, we can take that into advicement as PE extreme measures can indeed kill your penis in 3 minutes or less. This is why safety is at the forefront at all time. I am that sounding board. However, what you're experience is a nexus to something else bigger. It's like a person dying from a cold, yet have connection to COVID, or a person died suddenly during flight and later discovered there's a brain hemmorhage. Each example has far-reaching back stories than just the apparently symptoms and correlations. We are still on your case brother.

oldandlively said:

This is something new. Okay, got to gain some clarification. When you feel the "dick is wet with a fan on it", does it means feeling clammy and cool like you sweat a lot and have an evaporative cooling effect? Or it's dry but having that cool feeling like a wet penis being blown by wind?

This is a lack of blood flow, regardless of how you put it. But the clamminess/wetness will be something to evaluate. If it's dry, then it's nothing out of the ordinary comparing to the lack of blood flow.

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dry with a wet feeling from what i can tell.

oldandlively said:

Sticking to your legs is another flag. Does the penis feel sticky and wet, or does your crotch feels sticky and wet? This is something you want to define properly. Why? Two different symptoms aside from penile issues are manifesting.

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definitely the glans sticky when it occurs

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Shrinkage and numbess are symptoms not born out of nerves, but it's actually caused by frictious pain. Your nerve is not the culprit causing the shrinkage, but we finally figured out something else at 90%. Our brother @TCDreamer brought up in the recent days. Hard Flaccid Syndrome (HFS) covered the exact same manifestation we're reading from your reports. We're all pounding our heads, and check the boxes and scribbling our interactive doodle pads to see where you're leading us. Those doodle pads look like bad plates of sphagetti.

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my whole head is spaghetti. for sure. i understand. ive researched a lot on HF though as well. except mine mostly is just really flaccid/limp. shrunk

oldandlively said:

HFS can come out of the blue. It's not due to PE. It's a manifestation that we have yet to trace and track down on. It can be as simple as odd interactive diet, aging, bad physiological conditions, or exposed to a cocktail of manmade chemicals. More and more males and females are coming forward with the same HFS issues. It's no longer rare. It's alarming.


Once again, it's not PE. If you believe PE is the cause, we can take that into advicement as PE extreme measures can indeed kill your penis in 3 minutes or less. This is why safety is at the forefront at all time. I am that sounding board. However, what you're experience is a nexus to something else bigger. It's like a person dying from a cold, yet have connection to COVID, or a person died suddenly during flight and later discovered there's a brain hemmorhage. Each example has far-reaching back stories than just the apparently symptoms and correlations. We are still on your case brother.

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i hope its not PE, yet i really feel it started this . my glans feeling seems to feel that way too. so. going up to post #648, what are your thoughts there? im extremely out of my head every day with this. i honestly dont really see straight most days anymore. i miss my wife so much it hurts. a lot

notmeanymore said:

dry with a wet feeling from what i can tell.

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Got it. So it's based on blood circulation.

notmeanymore said:

definitely the glans sticky when it occurs

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Glans sticking on the the legs. This may be from the glans's surface acting like finger prints when it's shriveling. Any moisture from the thighs transferred to the glans's surface causing it to stick like a clammy finger sticking to the skin surface. Makes sure to observe this. Also, use a bit of either baby powder or magnesium carbonate to see if this sticky phenomenon still happens.

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my whole head is spaghetti. for sure. i understand. ive researched a lot on HF though as well. except mine mostly is just really flaccid/limp. shrunk

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Hard flaccid doesn't pertain to hard flaccid state, but also shrunken state in a flaccid form. Hard is just an added phenomenon to the constantly shrunken state. If you look at the various dimension of HF, the shrunken penis lack soft volume of the flaccid. The more dense penile tissues you have, the lack of blood increase the hardness of the penile body as a whole. That's why it feels hard and not soft. But in your case, you still have blood flow, not sufficient enough to call it plump, and not lack the blood nor the large amount of of tissues to cause it to be hard. You're literally at the cross road of HF. This is why it's hard to place where you are in the scheme of diagnosis. Most doctors and practioners will throw their hands up in the air and move on.

notmeanymore said:

i hope its not PE, yet i really feel it started this . my glans feeling seems to feel that way too. so. going up to post #648, what are your thoughts there? im extremely out of my head every day with this. i honestly dont really see straight most days anymore. i miss my wife so much it hurts. a lot

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PE is merely a contribution to create an earlier onset. But there are many more contributors that we haven't trace back yet. A wife that is understanding will do different things or adapt different ways to accomodate to both of your needs during your healing period. As long as you don't alienate her, she will not do the same thing for you. Worest thing you can do is to push her away from you. This is where you cling onto her even more, drop your pridefulness, and talk to her even more. Why do I know this? Because my wife discusses things like this practically on a daily basis. I also gone through cases of ugly relational issues all around me, from my closest family members, to coworkers, friends, and acquaintances. This is because of male's pride and alienation.

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and ive most likely discussed this previously. if i indeed messed nerves up like i feel like i did, could i have went 6 weeks or more without having any numness or loss of feeling? cause that is how it went. i just noticed i was smaller initially, and didnt have any arousal. nor could i kegel and get a mental erection. id still get hard with foreplay, and manually. and super hard at night. it was after that, i started getting sensitive, etc.which pregressively went to numbness, etc

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In the case of post #648, we can rule out nerve prolong damages between the glans and the base of the penile body. The dorsal nerve is not the issue as you can feel and sense the entire penis. What I'm more concern in tracing down is the specific side of numbness and discomfort signal. We need to find where the kink is occuring, the misfired location, and where the source of the receptor(s) that cause the numbness. More importantly, it's the blockage of the blood flow that got me the most concern. The loss of blood flow, in combination with the prior nerve kink, causes the numbness. But it was due to the clamping near the base. So, we can start tracing from the base to the pelvic floor. You indicated the anal and pelvic floor lock up and hardness. This is also an indicator something is down there, be a blockage or a kink. We are not certain get. We're slowly tracing back according to your analytical reports from the post.

This is where we are at, as we know for sure you can obtain and maintain an erection through stimulation. The moment your blood pressure level equalizes from laying down, your erection is much stronger than when you're mobile. This is indeed a blockage. When your free testosterone level is elevated in combination with your blood pressure equalization, you have night time erection. This is an indicator that your nominal blood pressure from hormone stimulation (primarily your nitric oxide loading) can actuate the blood flow to bypass any blockage.

We did evaluate the post erection symptoms of numbness and sensitivity, where lack of blood flow to normalize your nerve signal to prevent the misfiring sensation. Pay attention to this example next time you're swimming. When you are in a cold water body, such as a stream, lake, or ocean, or even a cold shower, as your blood subsurface and flow around your internal organs more, your fingers, toes, and skin around your body becomes less warm and more cold. The tips of your fingers and toes become shriveled, hard clammy at times, and numbed. Same for your skin. Same effects where the nerves are concentrated, like your nipples, back of your neck, your scalp, inner thighs, or even at the bottom of your feet. This is what you're feeling for your glans. The same effects due to the lack of blood flow to the specific region of your crotch and penile body. Lack of blood going to that region of the penile body causes the same anomoly as it was described earlier. Now, we need to trace down to the source of this blockage. Is it the artery? Pretty high probability. Is it the vein? The possibility is there as any blockage of the veins can signal an artery constriction to prevent new blood from coming into the penis. Inflammation of the drainage corridors? A bit IF, but when that IF is a YES, it explains a whole lot of commonalities to the HF symptoms.

This is why our doodle boards are like a bad plate of spaghetti. Too many diagnosis and not enough tests to rule them out.

oh i know. ive sat here for awhile now. i feel like hell. i got up to pee. i dont really feel much till i get it out. at that point, its hanging decent and appears to have good flow. i still cant feel any differently. yet i can watch the life drain away ,right back to shrink town in my hand. once i stand up its hard to keep anything. i dont seem to feel it anyway though. glans always seems to be on the smaller side since this has set in it seems also. im so hurt , its not funny

yes i can feel entire penis. shaft /frenulum have no issues. glans, however, is wrong. i can feel it, yet its dull i would say. i can feel a shirt draped across it, yet not a light touch of toilet paper. and i dont rememer what its suppsoed to feel like. not this though. it feels good enough i feel sex with the tip fine. yet i walk around and feel hardly anythig, and its really hard to deal with that. ice i dont really feel at all. yet if i touch it with a cold thumb i can tell its cold. just sitting around or walking, i dont ever get any jolts of an erection as i used to. it sucks.a lot. my rear tightens up a lot. i kinda feel like its responding to the lack of feels/oversensitivity in the glans and anxiety. everythig gets super tight after that.

oh and i did not clamp ever.

im scared to death my nerves are fried, cause i started getting a little sensitive after 6 weeks post injury. started having Premature ejac . that has ran its course, and has improved a lot. masturbation still causes it way more than sex. moreso if i initiate it. if i act on a night erection, its not nearly as sensitive to cause pe. what really gets me, is if i do get a moment i feel aroused, and kegeling actually does move things as it should, i tend to seem to feel kinda normal for those moments. you seem like its not nerves though. i hope you can prove that true.

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oh i know. ive sat here for awhile now. i feel like hell. i got up to pee. i dont really feel much till i get it out. at that point, its hanging decent and appears to have good flow. i still cant feel any differently. yet i can watch the life drain away ,right back to shrink town in my hand. once i stand up its hard to keep anything. i dont seem to feel it anyway though. glans always seems to be on the smaller side since this has set in it seems also. im so hurt , its not funny

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Yep. When you try to pee, your body engage blood flow to volumize the shaft to ensure the urethra is straighten up to vacate as much of the urine as possible. A trick to maintain this is to do reverse kegel, bearing down on pelvic floor to mimic the same peeing condition to get the blood to flow. Let's start with that. Traing the pelvic floor to relax normally goes against the body normal pelvic floor engagement, such as erection. It's going to be strange for a while during the retraining phases.

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yes i can feel entire penis. shaft /frenulum have no issues. glans, however, is wrong. i can feel it, yet its dull i would say. i can feel a shirt draped across it, yet not a light touch of toilet paper. and i dont rememer what its suppsoed to feel like. not this though. it feels good enough i feel sex with the tip fine. yet i walk around and feel hardly anythig, and its really hard to deal with that. ice i dont really feel at all. yet if i touch it with a cold thumb i can tell its cold. just sitting around or walking, i dont ever get any jolts of an erection as i used to. it sucks.a lot. my rear tightens up a lot. i kinda feel like its responding to the lack of feels/oversensitivity in the glans and anxiety. everythig gets super tight after that.

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Yep. This is the numbness due to the lack of blood flow. It's the same thing when some one uses a wrap or a cock ring that restricts to much blood flow for too long. That numbness and lack of light sensation. Heavier sensation tends to generate the touch signal that the body reacts to inspite of blood flow as a defense mechanism.

notmeanymore said:

oh and i did not clamp ever.

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It's a moniker of the pump event that caused the kink at the base of the penis. The edge of the pump causes the momentary kink, like the sharp edge of the cable clamp, cutting the nerve and blood vessels off from the rest of the penis.

notmeanymore said:

im scared to death my nerves are fried, cause i started getting a little sensitive after 6 weeks post injury. started having Premature ejac . that has ran its course, and has improved a lot. masturbation still causes it way more than sex. moreso if i initiate it. if i act on a night erection, its not nearly as sensitive to cause pe. what really gets me, is if i do get a moment i feel aroused, and kegeling actually does move things as it should, i tend to seem to feel kinda normal for those moments. you seem like its not nerves though. i hope you can prove that true.

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Your nerves are not fried. At this moment, we can only assume it's blocked somewhere. The receptors are acting up and we don't know where the sources of the issues yet. But you give us clue on where it may be, which is at the pelvic floor and the surround of the pelvic floor. For now, train with the reverse kegels, not kegels, and massage the entire area that influence the pelvic floor. This can be prostate regions (yeah, not fun for guys since it both inside the anal and outside below the scrotum), the pelvic floor itself (betwen the anal and scrotum), and the deep tissues that causes the lockup (which can be quite a few culprits since the pelvic area is a nexus for the upper and lower bodies).

i hope you are right.

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Yep. When you try to pee, your body engage blood flow to volumize the shaft to ensure the urethra is straighten up to vacate as much of the urine as possible. A trick to maintain this is to do reverse kegel, bearing down on pelvic floor to mimic the same peeing condition to get the blood to flow. Let's start with that. Traing the pelvic floor to relax normally goes against the body normal pelvic floor engagement, such as erection. It's going to be strange for a while during the retraining phases.

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i have severe issues doing these. i feel nothing , yet i know what its supposed to feel like. i know im doin them, yet i get zero results. i had one day close to a year ago, it all worked. i felt good that day. was horny and had no pain. never got it again like that since

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Yep. This is the numbness due to the lack of blood flow. It's the same thing when some one uses a wrap or a cock ring that restricts to much blood flow for too long. That numbness and lack of light sensation. Heavier sensation tends to generate the touch signal that the body reacts to inspite of blood flow as a defense mechanism.

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its like this constantly though it seems. during erections not as bad at all, yet its off a tad.

oldandlively said:

It's a moniker of the pump event that caused the kink at the base of the penis. The edge of the pump causes the momentary kink, like the sharp edge of the cable clamp, cutting the nerve and blood vessels off from the rest of the penis.

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ok that makes more sense.

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Your nerves are not fried. At this moment, we can only assume it's blocked somewhere. The receptors are acting up and we don't know where the sources of the issues yet. But you give us clue on where it may be, which is at the pelvic floor and the surround of the pelvic floor. For now, train with the reverse kegels, not kegels, and massage the entire area that influence the pelvic floor. This can be prostate regions (yeah, not fun for guys since it both inside the anal and outside below the scrotum), the pelvic floor itself (betwen the anal and scrotum), and the deep tissues that causes the lockup (which can be quite a few culprits since the pelvic area is a nexus for the upper and lower bodies).

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ok im humoring that. but even if my glans feels this screwed up , and gets sensitive after masturbating? ill massage it all and try . ill stick a shoe up my rear if it helps figure this out. ive already tried all i could in there with a therawand a couple times with zero luck.

im really having a hard time keeping up with whether my feeling has improved or gotten worse. it really seems the last couple months everything sensation wise, has gotten duller. i remember last fall (1-3 months in), i had some really strong sex. and it felt good and i felt huge. now, this fall, it is really diminished in all areas really.thats what confuses me on the nerve deal. it really feels that bad, yet after i got hurt, just thought i had ed. i even bought one of those ed mindfulness classes to try. then started excercising. etc. i wouldnt have done that had i had feeling issues. and for a while, it really kicked me up a notch...for awhile. and then i started seeing how serious this is the more it went.

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ok im humoring that. but even if my glans feels this screwed up , and gets sensitive after masturbating? ill massage it all and try . ill stick a shoe up my rear if it helps figure this out. ive already tried all i could in there with a therawand a couple times with zero luck.

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This is where we'll try to trace the source of the problem. Since there's no specialist in your area that deals with PE, it'll be a hit and miss for diagnosis. Still, don't give up the search for a good urologist or a doctor with PE practition of somekind. A referral of a referral to a referral is a good connection to a specialist.

Sensivitity after any sexual stimulation is very normal. Ask any brother here. After I ejaculate, my glans are so freakishly sensitive that if my wife gives me oral, I would deny her. Same thing with hher after she reached her strings of orgasms and climaxes. If I massage her clit or suck on it, she would scream. What you're feeling is an intensified version of it. Your nerve is actually becoming hyper sensitive due to the loss of effective blood circulation, just like that example of the hand, feet, and skin lacking blood flow. In reality, your nerve is working possibly better than before. The missing component is the blood flow.

The massage want is just vibrating. What you want is ultrasonic or soundwave for deeper penetration without the traumas. When we use massage guns and massage wands, we're using oscillating contact pressure waves. When the ultrasonic or soundwave, it's still pressure waves, but it lacks the hard hitting oscillation waves that cause constant micro traumas.

Examples of at home soundwave therapy is the Phoenix, Oceanus, Softwave, and many more. I can't tell you how effective these devices are compared to the one in the clinics using adjustable focused waves, but they do work in general. Consult with your local urologists and doctors before venturing.

oh theyre hypersensitive alright. lol. i feel more normal the first 30 min after sex ,ejac or not. after that though. im in dead feeling hell again. its so unsettling to not feel anything except a coolness or a tingle or just a dead numb. that makes it hard to think its anything except a nerve. i wasnt like this for at least the first 6 weeks. we had sex a lot then . sometimes i had to do a lot of foreplay, but man it felt good all the time, during, and even after. then everything started going downhill with sensitivity and only sometimes, i could get that good feeling .

The strangest thing is the post event of that faithful day. 6 weeks of normalcy even after that injury. But right after, something moved. Some got dislodged, or something got hindered. It's like a piece of plague, skin, or anomoly moved from the base of the penis, up the glans, down and out of the veins, and lodged itself somewhere near the pelvic floor during its travel. Your arteries and veins is connected at the pelvic floor based on the anatomical pathways. So something is lodged or wedged itself way deep down inside, causing havocs all over the place. We just need to find out what it is way back there, and while we probe for the sources, we need to find a temporary solution for your unique symptoms. So, keep on with your massages, be the wand, manually, or whatever you can to stimulate that blood flow. If and when time allows, take a timed hot bath. The reason why countries around the world love their hot spas and bath is to promote blood flow to the lower extremities. Try a slighter hotter than warm, close to bearable hot bath. Go for 5 minutes, 10 minutes, or even 15 minutes. See if there's a positive response to the hot bath as well. If there is positive response, we know right away there's a crazy blockage on either your artery or vein, or both. We can refocus our efforts at the location upon discovery.

i actually had one last night . i then stretched. i really dont think its related, but burning started later again after that. but i dont know. that still just doesnt explain my glans feeling so damaged all the time . thats really what seems to cause everything, and it never goes away it seems. it just teases me here and there

The support and advice is unreal in this thread. The brotherhood will never give up until you are fully healed. Again I pray for you and your recovery.

Try to take only the bath and do reverse kegel routine while you're in the bath. This is to pump blood thorugh the immersed portions. See if there's any positive results within 2 to 3 hours. Next day, a bath again, but rather than stretching, massage instead. Stretching force micro traumas along the penile body which you don't want. Just massage from the pelvic floor to the base of the penile shaft. See if there's any new positive outcome in 4 to 6 hours.