case study extremely big problem. HELP SOMEBODY PLEASE....

somehow ive ended here after battling this injury for al most 6 months. im in my 40's . i had jelqed off and on and pumped for a month or 2. nothing serious. felt better, and hung better it seemed. no real serious gains expected. just wanted better bloodflow and quality.

one day, i jelqed a bit harder than i had been, but no pain, and jsut for a minute. next day i pumped and accidentally went more than i wanted. no pain. immediately released and red along the base of the shaft. within the day it was gone. several days later i woke up with a shrunken unit and slight numbess on the shaft. had all hard flaccid symptoms.

was scared, so continued making my self have sex,. after a month or so, it seemed it was subsiding. i still woke up in the morning with a chub. but everything shrank to nothing during the day.then it started seeming like if we had sex more than once a week, it would traumatize everything and destroy my libido and size again.

very sensitive glans with burning /cooling feeling. shrunk all day. no erections. no night erections. then it would come back a week later with her, and we'd have sex again. eventually i figured out we had to quit for awhile. 6 months later, here i am. we just went a month of nothing. i still walk around all day shrunk to nothing. we had sex 2 days ago and it was great, but now it seems to be overly sensitive again. only time i hang normally , is if i lay down in bed awhile. but soon after i get up, its all gone again.

sensitivity/nerve damage, seems likely, but not sure. nothing feels like me down there unless im hard. it doesnt seem like i did anything too hard/painful to cause this, but i obviously did. not sure if this will heal ever, but i cant take any more panic attacks and anxiety. its hard to make it to bedtime every day. its the only relief i get.

it feels like i have half what i did on a normal day now, with no arousal. ive also noticed a constant pressure moreso while shrunken, in my rectum /perenium area,that tightens when i flex my penis. i get decent morning/night erections sometimes, and sometimes not as much. but im sure my anxiety day to day is effecting that . i cannot masturbate to get hard since the 2nd month of this, due to it irritating the nerves it seems on the head. actual sex doesnt irritate it as much, but it still does.

i always have the numbness/sensitivity issue to some degree, but its super bad when its shriveled up and burns. im just not sure the nerves will heal, and i dont know what to do now. im mentally exhausted and depressed. i can barely force myself to work or do anything that involves moving. it lets me know every step of every day what ive lost.
 
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sigh.. last 3 or 4 days have brought me to my knees. it seems like if i have a night of hard erections like 3 or 4 nights ago, it triggers a relapse all over again. by today im cold and shrunk to nothing again with burning feeling. same perennial pain when i try to kegel or flex it. just dead to the world and lets me know it all day.and if i try to arouse it, it attempts, but i get a backed up tight feeling, and not much erection out of it. and i can orgasm almost immediately with much touching. so im basically 100% useless now from all this. i reluctantly tried the bathmate today for first time jsut to see if it would get some blood through it. i tried for 6-7 minutes, but i could never get my full erection. i went back to my other MityVac - Wet and Dry Penis Vacuum Pump System pump with a gauge , and tried for 5 minutes at 7-8 in vaccum, and while way better, it just never really was the full erection ive always had. so thats the last time i try that i guess. not much left to try but wait , and wait some more. at over 6 months in, im not sure theres any going back here.
 
by today im cold and shrunk to nothing again with burning feeling.

You might need to take a break it could be overwork. I don’t know your routine or anything else just trying to help.
 
What is your current routine
 
guys, there is no routine . i only dabbled in this for a month or so back in july/ august . and even that was off and on. i have been doing nothing but trying to get my life back ever since then. literally. the only relief i get from the day in/day out of this is when i lay down at night. it somehow seems to subside a bit(although still not right). ill feel things here and there while laying down that almost feel like blood trying to come back in . but standing up the next day just absolutely wipes it all out all over again.
 
Did you ever get your check up by the doctor as we suggested in your last thread?

I’m so sorry for your problem I hope you get well soon
 
Maybe give the penis pumps a break and stop pumping.
 
cant get in until april. i dont feel ill last that long . i also feel thats a lost cause. 3 already have said they doubt theres any problem. im here to tell you there is.
 
Maybe give the penis pumps a break and stop pumping.
i have.....for 6 months. just did it out of curiosity today. i never did it all that much to begin with.
 
i have.....for 6 months. just did it out of curiosity today. i never did it all that much to begin with.
I am not sure what your issues are. This entire post is riddled with contradictions. You say that you suffer from poor quality erections, yet you are capable of getting morning wood and having sex with your wife. So clearly, it is not a blood flow issue, because if it were, you wouldn't be able to achieve and sustain an erection long enough for intercourse.

You describe feeling depressed and anxious, which can certainly cause low libido and affect erection quality. I doubt that your problem is a mechanical one, or that your short-lived pumping routine half a year ago had anything to do with your erection quality today. The problem is most likely psychological, but if there is an underlying medical issue, such as diabetes, poor kidney function, etc, your blood work results will speak to that.

In the meantime, I wouldn't worry too much about shrinkage. A fuller flaccid throughout the day is nowhere near as important as being able to perform. It can surely be bothersome psychologically, but it is more important to know that it is functional, even if not on command. The point is, it still works, so you shouldn't lose all hope. I do not have any advice concerning the tenderness you are feeling on your shaft -- that is something you need to talk to your doctor about.

The only way to fix this is to make some lifestyle changes to deal with the anxiety and depression. Daily exercise can help with that, so make an effort to go to the gym every single day. Working out also raises your testosterone which increases libido, an added bonus. Next, drink plenty of water every day; it is extremely important to stay hydrated for both mind and body. Eat healthy (no processed foods whatsoever), and lose any extra weight if necessary. Make sure your BMI is within appropriate range.

Boron, magnesium glycinate, omega 3's, organ meats, and zinc all help to increase testosterone levels naturally. Look into them.

Finally, for rock hard erections, look into L-citrulline DL-malate, powdered form. Look into the overall benefits of increasing the production of nitric oxide, which is what L-citrulline DL-Malate does. Buy it, and give it 10 days to work. Don't ask me any questions. Just do it. You'll thank me later.
 
yes, there are contradictions. i understand its confusing. im still trying to put the puzzle together myself. i just kinda put something together this morning thinking back. im not sure what got damaged, but about a month after i initially started having problems(and hard flaccid), HF went away, and things seemed to be a little better. i kept having sex, which was probably the worst idea,but i was freaking out a bit.

so i took a cialis to make sure things went well. they did. very well. i was really hard. then over the next 3 days everything crashed and shrunk. tender/sensitive glans, no libido. etc. since that happened, it seems if i start to feel better and do anything, it sets me back to that day. ive since about a month ago, tried to take notes of everything to notice any patterns. what ive found, is that once i do start getting on the path to recovering and feeling ok, and aroused again, i start having better night erections. they end up hurting something , and im back to square one for about a week. which is where i am right now.

about 5 -6 days ago i had several rock hard erections all night that woke me up. 2 nights in a row. now everything is way sensitive, and hurts . its like something is trying to heal, but my nightly erection starts it all over again. im just now starting to feel a little better today from that. but im worried its just gonna keep going and going as it has. the shrinkage seems to be my bodys way of saying, dont touch it. im hurting. and it defintely feels hurt when it does this. back to more waiting it seems.
 
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Oh man can you edit your post so it's easier to read, some paragraphing would have been nice. 🙂
 
Oh man can you edit your post so it's easier to read, some paragraphing would have been nice. 🙂
Without making good paragraphs it makes it almost impossible to understand
 
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After this edit we will help.
We are very friendly and helpful here.
 
yes, there are contradictions. i understand its confusing. im still trying to put the puzzle together myself. i just kinda put something together this morning thinking back. im not sure what got damaged, but about a month after i initially started having problems(and hard flaccid), HF went away, and things seemed to be a little better. i kept having sex, which was probably the worst idea,but i was freaking out a bit. so i took a cialis to make sure things went well. they did. very well. i was really hard. then over the next 3 days everything crashed and shrunk. tender/sensitive glans, no libido. etc. since that happened, it seems if i start to feel better and do anything, it sets me back to that day. ive since about a month ago, tried to take notes of everything to notice any patterns. what ive found, is that once i do start getting on the path to recovering and feeling ok, and aroused again, i start having better night erections. they end up hurting something , and im back to square one for about a week. which is where i am right now. about 5 -6 days ago i hard several rock hard erections all night that woke me up. 2 nights in a row. now everything is way sensitive, and hurts . its like something is trying to heal, but my nightly erection starts it all over again. im just now starting to feel a little better today from that. but im worried its just gonna keep going and going as it has. the shrinkage seems to be my bodys way of saying, dont touch it. im hurting. and it defintely feels hurt when it does this. back to more waiting it seems.
Nobody here can help you with unexplained tenderness of your shaft. We do not know the source of the issue, and even if we did, we most probably would not have the competency to provide you with real solutions. As I've stated in my previous post, this matter needs to be diagnosed and treated by a medical professional, not by some guys on a PE site.

So far, based on what you have told me, I offered you some solutions which can potentially help. You might want to take my advice and see if it works for you. Everything is outlined above.

There is no sense in complaining about this anymore. Go to a clinic and have it looked at. Once you know what the source of the problem is, only then can you fix it.
 
sorry for the hard to read text. im having a really bad time . this week was rough due to working outside doing very physical things. Penis stayed dormant everyday until i layed down at night. And lots of times, its so cold, if it touches my leg, my leg absolutely feels frozen.

So, yesterday, i caved and took a small dose(25mg) viagara. not to have sex , just to see if it would release some blood to it while i worked or something. it did that. but after about an hour, it gave me a full on boner. which looked normal and all. But today, im paying for it again.

My glans is lightly burning again from that, and super sensitive, shrunken and lifeless. this is basically the effect of having sex lately as well. So, its not the sex thats making it irritated as much as the erection itself. Which explains why last week was so bad after i had 2 nights of hard nocturnal erections. i havent had those since either, since they crashed my system again. I know nobody here has an answer, but im still over a month out to the doctor, and im just lost here, and needed to vent. This is the most horrible thing in the world to live with....
 
sorry for the hard to read text. im having a really bad time . this week was rough due to working outside doing very physical things. Penis stayed dormant everyday until i layed down at night. And lots of times, its so cold, if it touches my leg, my leg absolutely feels frozen.

So, yesterday, i caved and took a small dose(25mg) viagara. not to have sex , just to see if it would release some blood to it while i worked or something. it did that. but after about an hour, it gave me a full on boner. which looked normal and all. But today, im paying for it again.

My glans is lightly burning again from that, and super sensitive, shrunken and lifeless. this is basically the effect of having sex lately as well. So, its not the sex thats making it irritated as much as the erection itself. Which explains why last week was so bad after i had 2 nights of hard nocturnal erections. i havent had those since either, since they crashed my system again. I know nobody here has an answer, but im still over a month out to the doctor, and im just lost here, and needed to vent. This is the most horrible thing in the world to live with....

A lot of this could be from stress through the suffering you're going through. I highly recommend you do deep tissue massage using heat if possible. You may be having severe fatigue which may take a couple of days to resolve itself. But until that time I think you should be doing deep tissue massage using heat especially the MOS-RED | NIR INFRARED LIGHT THERAPY FOR ERECTION QUALITY
 
A lot of this could be from stress through the suffering you're going through. I highly recommend you do deep tissue massage using heat if possible. You may be having severe fatigue which may take a couple of days to resolve itself. But until that time I think you should be doing deep tissue massage using heat especially the MOSRED
id be thrilled with a couple days. this part of it is going on 3 or 4 months now. it just never seems to heal before it gets aggravated again or something. its so confusing
 
Stick with it and have confidence that this will disappear very soon
 
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