A big dick to one woman may not be to the next. Just like anything, it is all relative. My estranged wife hates anything more than 4" as it is extremely painful for her because she has a low cervix. Even before I did Penis Enlargement when I was at around 6" she felt it was way too big. Obviously there are some size queens out there, and I am sure I fucked one or two
I bet they thought my penis was too small. It is all relative. Most women don't care to much about how big the penis is as long as it is functional. Women, in general, have a long list of prerequisites before the penis makes the list.