I know it's hard but you should really try not to compare yourself to this other guy. It's obvious that something was lacking in their relationship or about him or she would still be with him. If you will win her heart completely you will be the best even if you aren't the biggest. I don't know about you but if I had a choice I know which I would prefer to be. I am in a eight year relationship with a girl and I know I'm not the biggest she's ever been with. I've heard the monster story too. I even know the guy in the monster story. It was when she was young and she has told me that even though they tried she just couldn't make it fit. Does this bother me. Well I'm not crazy about it but I'm not obsessed about it either. What is important to me is that she was honest and upfront about it. Most girls think that they would love to experience a big one. When they find one some really like it but some find out that big isn't always better. It depends on the girl and they are all different. I Penis Enlargement for the same reason everybody else does. I want to be bigger, but I am who I am and if I don't ever grow a bit I am satisfied with what I have. I think most of our problem is not around our waist but it's between our ears. Like I said before, win her heart and the rest will be taken care of.