Wifey getting faster orgasms with PE now backed by Science

Background:
I have had amazing sex with wifey for 14 years and as she says, "The best sex ever" after 6 months of being together along with sex and oral sex she would regularly have the BIG-O orgasm (took 30-45 min), it always took a while going back in forth with sex, I still need to perform oral sex to end it so like 20-25 min of oral sex. Before me, she had 2 partners from 21-27, and the second only achieved a penetration BIG-O orgasm once, only one orgasm in 7 years of sex, can you imagine?. The second my arch-enemy was endowed aprox 8 x 5 but as she mentions, too much so that she experienced pain 2 out of 5 times having sex. So she says it was great but not all that great when you are having sex and feel that at any time you might get pain.

PE:
I restarted my PE journey a year ago. After 2 newbie growths 10 years before. Once I started water pumping and 5 x 5 x 3, that is when the girth started to grow a lot.
Now with penetration with long good strokes, warming up and going deep, and then going down on her she is having orgasms in half the time!

What changed? Only 1" of total gains L + G. I didn't change anything else, I didn't learn any more moves, I've done everything the same except now for hitting it deeper in the Vagina.

Video:
I like this video, it helps me understand the following:
1. Rhythm - I like how he talks about water in the tub and making waves to get the water to spill over
2. It takes 3! Clit, G, and A & C/O (some call it P spot). Her past did more G and A & C/O spot and like many Big D men who get lazy because they get so much reaction and pleasure from their partner doing that. But as the video explains, it takes a village. I go down on her a lot and of course, my D was always hitting the G-spot, that is why she always came, the Clit and G are king but it would take a while before PE. While the C/O gives what women call the internal big Orgasm, you can still achieve that as long as you are stirring it up well for her.
3. Now like the video says I'm creating a wave from all three! She is now after 14 years, demanding ( yes, demanding) I don't stop when going deep with great rhythm because she feels she is cuming with mini orgasms throughout sex. She calls our sex life a new chapter now. Great before but what was great in her past is now just good and this is the greatest of greats, and as she says, all with no pain!

how big are u now from before?

His opinion gold star advice is so important

aznsensation said:

how big are u now from before?

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Stats are in the signature,

Interesting video.

squirt_inducer_man, have never had problems with this.

I recommend learning sensual massage, and how to stimulate with mouth, tongue and fingers (keep your fingernails short and smooth) as well.

Also think about the penetration angle. Putting your woman on a firm pillow to elevate her hips in the missionary position, is also a good tip.

You need to give your woman water as well during sex, that is only fair. You don't want to dry her out.

squirt_inducer_man said:

Interesting video.

squirt_inducer_man, have never had problems with this.

I recommend learning sensual massage, and how to stimulate with mouth, tongue and fingers (keep your fingernails short and smooth) as well.

Also think about the penetration angle. Putting your woman on a firm pillow to elevate her hips in the missionary position, is also a good tip.

You need to give your woman water as well during sex, that is only fair. You don't want to dry her out.

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Sexy😁

Now she is demanding I do her from the back more! If I must, I must!

I know the feeling. Every 0.5in of girth counts. My fire is enjoying every moment of it now as well. I got my cementing in while I was breaking for 2 weeks due to a strange tug back. Think of it as an abnormal plateau for going too hard during a plasticity state. Two weeks rest and plasticity resets for another another phase of gaining.

For those who don't know about an abnormal phase of tug back, it appears as if you lose 0.5in to 1in. You didn't actually lose it, your body is trying to reset by performing an instinctive hard reboot and attempt to put the penis into preservation mode by pulling the entire penis back into the pelvic are through extreme muscle engagement. Once the muscles relaxed after a bit of rest, you'll get it all back.

Funny enough, one of the brothers also reported this to me. He and I went a bit too hard.

bemorethanbig said:

Now she is demanding I do her from the back more! If I must, I must!

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Do what you gotta. Hit it from the back and believe me she won't take it personally

oldandlively said:

I know the feeling. Every 0.5in of girth counts. My fire is enjoying every moment of it now as well. I got my cementing in while I was breaking for 2 weeks due to a strange tug back. Think of it as an abnormal plateau for going too hard during a plasticity state. Two weeks rest and plasticity resets for another another phase of gaining.

For those who don't know about an abnormal phase of tug back, it appears as if you lose 0.5in to 1in. You didn't actually lose it, your body is trying to reset by performing an instinctive hard reboot and attempt to put the penis into preservation mode by pulling the entire penis back into the pelvic are through extreme muscle engagement. Once the muscles relaxed after a bit of rest, you'll get it all back.

Funny enough, one of the brothers also reported this to me. He and I went a bit too hard.

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Even thou 1inch sounds massive it certainly sounds like my experience too. So much yet to discover and learn in this science called PE. But without people like DLD, you and others that practice and also share their experiences we would certainly still be exactly nowhere.

LongLongMan said:

Even thou 1inch sounds massive it certainly sounds like my experience too. So much yet to discover and learn in this science called PE. But without people like DLD, you and others that practice and also share their experiences we would certainly still be exactly nowhere.

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1 inch is a massive growth

i was refering to the ability of the body to pull your penis back 1", it sounds like a lot to be able to loose, but i feel like ive lost around 0.5-0.8 in the last years

LongLongMan said:

i was refering to the ability of the body to pull your penis back 1", it sounds like a lot to be able to loose, but i feel like ive lost around 0.5-0.8 in the last years

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The body can in fact pull up to 3in back into the body. This is referenced to the ligamentary pull and muscles tug back. What you pulled out, or elongated, as the muscles engaged due to fight or flight responses for preservation, they can condense and lock the areas into a harden surface to safeguard the critical organs around it, which is the bladder, prostate, and the pelvic components that balance your lower body portion.

As I have mentioned in the past posts, our penis is the last thing on the body's list to care about. If we ignore the programming process to tell the body to divert resources to penis to maintain and rejuvenate the penis on a continuous basis, the penis will undergo regression. This is why we push for long term cementing by keeping active PE routines even after cementing the gains.

This is extremely fascinating from a PE pov. I was always thinking that this happened to me, because it feels that the base of my penis is very dense and strong, almost unelastic compared to the tissue around it, approximately 10cm radius. So what do you do to prevent this besides staying active and doing PE (for at least a year after reaching our goal you wrote?) Are there other things that can prevent this? In your opinion, does the red light lamp also help in preventing regression ? It claims to help increase bloodflow, thus increasing recovery- and healingrate. From a simple 1+1=2 perspective it sounds like it could help, but there are for sure other factors that i do not see. I appreciate your help OaL.

LongLongMan said:

This is extremely fascinating from a PE pov. I was always thinking that this happened to me, because it feels that the base of my penis is very dense and strong, almost unelastic compared to the tissue around it, approximately 10cm radius. So what do you do to prevent this besides staying active and doing PE (for at least a year after reaching our goal you wrote?) Are there other things that can prevent this?

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It's a common phenomenon. There's a saying, "If you don't use it, you'll lose it." It applies to muscles, bones, brain, and even life. Since your penis is the last thing on the body's list of body part for survival beside urination and procreation, the body will ignore it 99% of the time until you remind it, constantly.

LongLongMan said:

In your opinion, does the red light lamp also help in preventing regression ?

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Red light is used to heal during PE. It does not help to promote growth without PE.

LongLongMan said:

It claims to help increase bloodflow, thus increasing recovery- and healingrate.

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Yes. Most of us use it after PE routines. Blood flow? No. It promotes cellular energizing for regrowth.

LongLongMan said:

From a simple 1+1=2 perspective it sounds like it could help, but there are for sure other factors that i do not see. I appreciate your help OaL.

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If you need more info on red light, there are so much discussion on here that you can search. Quite a lot of detail info as well.