Hey, I'll often see a quote I can build a reply off of and then run with it .. this isn't
at the quoter, it's all general ..
Women's perfect penis size is average since that is what nature/God created, I don't think you need a freak cock to give orgasms
But what's 'average'? Compare various Asian vs Italian or Pakistani or whatever. 'Average' is all over the place.
There's a size range with which orgasms will occur for the woman more quickly and more often, and that size range is well above
anybody's natural average.
A study from about ten years ago had reported that a woman's mean rise time to orgasm for normal sized penises was something like 23 minutes. Since most guys don't last anywhere near that long, that'd be really problematic for them. For larger penises the mean rise time to orgasm was three times quicker at only 7 minutes.
I recall the average amount of time that most guys last during sex being more like the same 7 minutes, but their avg-sized cock would tend to need 300% more time to get the girl off. Some quick links off Google just now said guys tend to last ...
12min
Average Sex Time - How Long Should Sex Last?
7.3min, but half of them only going 2min (! wtf guys, represent)
Short sex is pretty normal, it turns out
3.75min, and also that women
would prefer 23min .. right on the nose. Hmmm.
How Long He Lasts in Bed - Average Male Sex Statistics | Shape Magazine
If someone is going for way longer, then statistically they'll tend to be alright ..
Or if they're doing a lot more eroticizing foreplay, or (obviously) using additional manual manipulation and/or toys and/or aiming for the higher-enervated areas during thrusting .. then they could cut that 23 minutes figure down to less ...
But as some anti-PE shidiot hanging out around here circa 2007 couldn't seem to get through his head ... guys with big dicks can do all of that stuff
too.
That is to say .. someone doesn't magically forget how to f*ck just because their dick got bigger, even if the smaller guys would like to think so. The opposite tends to be the case. As you'd said, ego is a component, but in this vein: the confidence, and positive response, of having a larger penis tends to inform a string of perpetuating successes, which tends to provide more opportunity for practice, and even more competency/artfulness vs the average-average male. Not the same or worse. More.
One doesn't
need a freak cock to give orgasms, but (all other things being similar) giving them 3 times faster isn't exactly a downside. And rocking the chick's world so well doesn't tend to put a slump in your shoulders or a frown on your face about doing it all again. Success breeds success.
I'm remembering something I'd said to that timewasting closed-off 2007 guy, besides that someone should have given his parents a condom, .. No woman (much less all of them) has ever yelled out during sex "Oh G-d Yes F*ck Me With That Average Cock!" nor later on bragged to her friends "Girrrrl, you would not believe how average his dick is.."
There is a such thing as too big, and around here (with the capabilities of PE) we need to be careful of that .. but out in the wild 'too big' is statistically a bit like a unicorn with flame decals, pretty rare.
In the real world, average is 'ok' or 'fine', .. above average is better, .. and big is just right.