I have used both, but I highly prefer the
Bathmate.
Extender use in my humble opinion is not for someone who has an active lifestyle. I am constantly out and about. Having to worry about the
extender when I did use it was a huge hassle for me. I enjoy the
Bathmate. I take two showers a day, and I use the
Bathmate in the AM and PM. I do stretching before and my jelq session after the
Bathmate (wet, using vaseline) afterwards, followed by a cool down stretch session (lightly doing stretches, slapping it around to get blood circulating).
So I suggest the
Bathmate, but this is for my particular lifestyle. I did enjoy the feeling of the
extender, it just presented way too much trouble. Best money I ever spent in Penis Enlargement was on the
Bathmate. It certaintly helps more with girth, but naturally, length as well when used together with a stretching/jelq routine.