Why I no longer prefer to cum fully, only have orgasms

Lately, I have been getting less and less satisfaction from cumming and having an orgasm at the same time. I now prefer to have orgasms with no or little cum. I told wifey this as she see's me grunt hard now, holding the ejaculation and the sensitivity of the orgasm. I honestly feel like I have an orgasm for 2 or 3 times longer than when I cum and orgasm. I also have more cum in the reserves to have sex again or save it for later in the day or the next day.

As you see in all my posts, I think every man over 30 should be multi-orgasmic.

Read the book: the-multi-orgasmic-man for all the information on how to do it.

NOTE* this is not edging. This is going the distance and then holding the ejaculation and having a full orgasm.

Wow! Good for you 👍

bemorethanbig said:

Lately, I have been getting less and less satisfaction from cumming and having an orgasm at the same time. I now prefer to have orgasms with no or little cum. I told wifey this as she see's me grunt hard now, holding the ejaculation and the sensitivity of the orgasm. I honestly feel like I have an orgasm for 2 or 3 times longer than when I cum and orgasm. I also have more cum in the reserves to have sex again or save it for later in the day or the next day.

As you see in all my posts, I think every man over 30 should be multi-orgasmic.

Read the book: the-multi-orgasmic-man for all the information on how to do it.

NOTE* this is not edging. This is going the distance and then holding the ejaculation and having a full orgasm.

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bemorethanbig said:

Lately, I have been getting less and less satisfaction from cumming and having an orgasm at the same time. I now prefer to have orgasms with no or little cum. I told wifey this as she see's me grunt hard now, holding the ejaculation and the sensitivity of the orgasm. I honestly feel like I have an orgasm for 2 or 3 times longer than when I cum and orgasm. I also have more cum in the reserves to have sex again or save it for later in the day or the next day.

As you see in all my posts, I think every man over 30 should be multi-orgasmic.

Read the book: the-multi-orgasmic-man for all the information on how to do it.

NOTE* this is not edging. This is going the distance and then holding the ejaculation and having a full orgasm.

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Big up for sharing! Another positive effect we should consider is that we keep our testosterone level steady. Every time having the Big O causes a flatened level which leads to less drive in general and whats more important less motivation for Pe.

Are you able to maintain an erection after orgasm?

DLD said:

Are you able to maintain an erection after orgasm?

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Me? I'll answer. Pe helps me to be more aware of it. Like with all other things time and passion is the key.

Flexos said:

Me? I'll answer. Pe helps me to be more aware of it. Like with all other things time and passion is the key.

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I was asking if anyone remains erect after a dry orgasm!😀

DLD said:

I was asking if anyone remains erect after a dry orgasm!😀

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I can maintain about 80% after a dry orgasm. Within 5 minutes, it will be back at 100%

DLD said:

I was asking if anyone remains erect after a dry orgasm!😀

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So 2 state of minds on this one.

1. When I have a dry orgasm and it has been a few days without any orgasm, I can stay erect and go at that pussy again and again, my best has been 5. I haven't done this too much latlely becasue we have decided not to have more thingys in the house, so I can't risk it and keep going in and out with little cums 2-5 times. If you do this, be warned, when you do cum after a dry orgasm, it's going to be super amazing!

2. Since I have trained my mind that multi/dry orgasms hold back the cum and I have a jaw dropping orgasm, my dick is still kinda hard but my mind is feeling kinda finished so I don't have to remain hard, the goal is not in this state of mind to keep going for 2 reasons
2a. I already came so with or without cum, who really cares
2b. I am holding some reserves of cum for the next play date, that can happen later that night, tomorrow AM, etc. I have reserves.

What is crazy beautiful about all this is that I have trained my wife!!!

Yes, She is a cum manager now!!!

When we are going at it usually mid sex, she decides what is going down, she says either:
1. I want you to cum hard! meaning give me the full load, even though I know you need a day of rest after this. I want to satisfy you fully, so go at it hard, have a strong orgasm!
2. She tells me now, right in the middle of sex, "cum but can you save some for later!" it's the best feeling when she is basically saying this sex is so amazing but I want more later, I want you to fuck me again soon! And I can fucking deliver! oh man I'm talking about feeling like a lion at those moments. Without doing this in the past I would feel unsure I could preform later, and as a man not being able to deliver if wifey wants more, sucked, and could mess with your mind, do I have low EQ, is something wrong, why can't I do what I could do in my 20's, but I didn't know how to control my cum. What is also amazing is that if you have a dry orgasm, at 10AM and the next sex is 7PM, that load is going to be epic (the second one)

Wow you guys are so lucky. I may have had 3 dry orgasms over my time in pe. Maybe I need to concentrate more on holding back to aquire what you all have accomplished. Maybe I also need a girl to practice 😄