So maybe a big dick does make you lazy!

bemorethanbig

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So the other night wifey said to me, "Wow, I remember how it used to be." After our weekly couples massage night, I went down on her til she came with the big O. I went down on wifey 3/4 times a week for 14 years and spent about 10-20 min each time on her in addition to 10-20 min of sex. I loved the reaction she got, I love sucking pussy and we had great sex.

We had some drama and I started PE again a year ago, after gaining 1/2 in length I started pumping and that's when the following happened with my new EG with a cock ring over balls and shaft.

She changed in bed. She was now moaning with open mouth pout and in awe every time I went balls deep in her. She started saying I was thick and big, that I am hitting something in there, that she is now having mini orgasms with just the cock and screaming Yes, yes, yes. So for the last 4 months, I have been on Cloud 9 doing her with my new cock and loving the outcome. But it came at a cost. I started going down on her less. I started loving the fact that I am fucking her with a great cock now and just being in the zone of her new reactions. So much so that when I went back to how it was before she remembered the good times of me being down there a lot.

So it's interesting because we all hear the stories about big dicks being lazy or bad in bed and I always wondered why? do they really suck? they say ego but I know that's not it. You get a different reaction of enjoyment out of your partner with a big dick, so you don't have to go down there to get her in maximum moaning. That might be one reason for the Big D issues and why women say average guys are better because they balance it out.

What is amazing now is what I have done to correct the issue and now again, I'm a fucking stud in bed and on Cloud 9.

For sex, I have been hovering with half the cock out for the first 2 min of penetration and then giving her the full balls deep for 5 min and she does everything as described above, then when I go down on her, this woman is now having the BIG O in less than 5 min! WTF!!! What used to take 30-40 min is now getting me in the zone in a 1/3 of the time.

I had to share this experience because I think guys with big dicks get a bad rap, I don't wish bad sex, even on my worst enemy. I understand now why some guys are lazy in bed. They get all that excitement out of the women, so why do you need to go down? Believe me, no matter what, they want you to go down always and often even with your new cock!!!
 
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A big dick takes great responsibility
Absolutely true.An above the average penis is an advantage disadvantage dilemma,if we don't know how to handle it.Its crazy I have read about lots of guys who have gotten bigger they just did their routines n saw the results.Its been difficult for me to get to my desired size.i should comprehend that getting bigger takes time and I should exercise almost every day.Exercising at my own pace and enjoying it.That could be a good strategy to get a bigger size.
 
Since writing this in April, I'm proud to say that I have been doing all 3 and she is loving the new sex standard. Licking, Sex, and Deep Penetration.

Again, many times I fuck her leaving an inch out and not fully thrusting and she acts and moans like she did for 14 years. As soon as I go deep and give her all of it, she gasps and moans like a sex freak. As much as I love that, I balance it with everything else.

As you may have seen in my last few posts. She is now having big o orgasms with just penetration. With a thicker cock she is cumming quicker overall!
 
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